Remember – the workplace is not too direct
Remember: the workplace is not too direct
If you ask, people who like to go straight or go around, you must like the former.
Yes, we all like straightforward friends in life, we look forward to going straight to each other, even the courage, but often we close the deep heart between each other – like each other without talking, and hate the other side without cover, so, straightforwardWhen it really broke out, look at the occasion.
銆€銆€From a psychological point of view, straightforwardness is the most essential part of human nature.
It is widely believed that children are simple, they have not been polluted by the world, and they show natural truth everywhere. This is probably the so-called “naive.”
Their straightforwardness is the true embodiment of nature. The direct feelings of external things can be expressed through language without processing, and this direct expression is acceptable. This is the so-called “children’s words.”
銆€銆€Unlike the child’s straightforward preference, the adult’s straightforwardness is often rarely accepted because adults are sophisticated, and adults’ expressions are considered to be processed or even disguised, and their minds are different.Often something.
We do not rule out the people who swear by the sword, but the good intentions are regarded as the liver and lungs. Good wishes often fail to receive good results, and it is also a lot of pain in the hearts of adults.
銆€銆€Straightforward and straightforward, you said it directly, you feel cool, but don’t forget, if you are too straightforward, others will be unhappy.
In the workplace, people often need to pay attention to the way of speaking. They must be good at not being annoying. If you are good at doing good things, you must have a good result. When you give suggestions and opinions, you should pay attention to the timing, methods and methods.
銆€銆€Most people are good-faced, especially those who have identity, who are aware of the atmosphere at the scene, whether the emotions of the other party are suitable for straightforward chests, some opinions point to the end, or temporarily put aside, even waiting for the other party to wake up and realize that they have not tastedNo, you don’t have to separate the high and low.
銆€銆€The ancients said that “sixty and smooth ears” contain not only the vain and the ruthlessness, but also the reluctance of the mind, but also the realm of containing the dew and moistening things.
It is clear that these are clear, and good results will be improved for good intentions.